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The question
I keep being told fear is from the enemy, and now I feel guilty for being afraid on top of being afraid.
The answer
No. And what has been done to you here is a real pastoral harm: you have been given a second burden on top of the first.
The Bible is full of frightened faithful people. David is afraid and says so in the psalms. Elijah runs. Jesus, in Gethsemane, is in anguish. None of them is rebuked for the feeling.
When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.
Psalm 56:3Notice the shape of that verse. It does not say "I am never afraid". It describes what to do while afraid, which is a completely different instruction — and a possible one.
"Do not fear" in Scripture is almost always spoken as reassurance by someone arriving, not as a rule being enforced. It means "you are not alone", not "you are failing".
So: bring the fear to God as it is. You do not have to feel differently before you pray, and you are not disqualified by an emotion.
Scripture in this teaching
Psalm 56:3 · Psalm 34:4 · Isaiah 41:10 · Mark 14:33-36
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